In Wapello County, Foster Grandparents are making a meaningful difference in the lives of children while gaining more than many expect in return. Local volunteers age 55 and older spend time one-on-one with children, offering encouragement, guidance, and consistency that helps build confidence and provides support in early learning.
Before joining the Foster Grandparent Program, Lee Ester Cokely worked as a school crossing guard. She loved the morning interactions with children on their way to school and the happiness those brief moments brought her each day. Over time, she began to notice changes in her own mobility. She struggled more to get around and even to sit on the floor. Along with that physical change came something else. She realized she deeply missed those daily connections with children.
In May 2024, Lee joined the Foster Grandparent Program at the YMCA Discovery Lane Early Learning Center, hoping to regain that sense of connection. At first, the pace of working with young children was challenging. Adjusting physically took some time. Gradually, those challenges turned into growth for her.
Today, Lee works closely with 1- and 2-year-olds and keeps up with them, for the most part. “I love their little personalities, their excitement in the morning when they see me, and the hugs they give,” she said. “I love making them smile as much as they make me smile. Being a Foster Grandparent keeps me active, brings me so much joy, and reminds me that the simple things, like choosing joy, are what matter most.”
Lee finds fulfillment in reading to the children, teaching them about sharing, and helping them feel safe and cared for. At the same time, she says the children continue to teach her about love, kindness, and the importance of hugs. She credits the support of the local Program Director and YMCA staff for creating an environment where she feels encouraged and valued. “Having people who believe in you while helping young kids is amazing,” she shared.
Across Wapello County, Foster Grandparents volunteer in local schools and the YMCA Early Learning Center and dedicate roughly 20,000 hours each year. Since 1965 the program, through the American Home Finding Association, has connected generations, supported children while giving older adults renewed purpose and joy. Locally, the program has received support through the Legacy Foundation’s Bright Ideas Community Enrichment Fund grant, helping sustain these relationships and create impact in Wapello County.
Clay Courtney, local Program Director, is currently seeking volunteers age 55 and older to join the Foster Grandparent Program. For more information or to apply, contact Clay Courtney at 641-682-3449 or ccourtney@ahfa.org.
